It is the human nature that whenever we try to do something in hope to achieve a goal and eventually we get fail, then we start to make excuses or try to blame others or even the external factors for the eventual outcome of our actions. We scare to take the responsibility. By doing this, we unintentionally framing a character that is afraid to accept the truth and take the responsibility for its outcomes.
Through any kinds of responsibility, we are giving ourselves a power to shape the results and that’s why the taking an active role is helpful in turning out the outcomes.
Realization is Necessary: If you are able to accept the truth about your weaknesses and can get rid of the negativity of excuse making that you could be able to prevent yourself from getting failed or lead yourself to success. When we realises that we can do this, it seems like a huge responsibility which we are placing on our shoulders.
By realisation, we can accept that we are responsible for every kind of actions which is taken by us as well as every decision we make. We feel that there is nothing which we cannot achieve in this world.
Don’t Blame others: When we get fail, the biggest problem with ourselves, is that we start to blame others for our actions as we do not generally like to fail or cannot see ourselves getting fail.
We generally set a goal for us but at the same time, we also generate an excuse in order to keep it as a spare card which we could use after get failed. We could have the opportunity to blame others or factors.
But the more personal responsibility we take, the more in control we are and on whatever we have. In addition to this, the chances also increases for our success as there are no more excuses to fall back on if we fail.
Get Rid of Negativity: We often notice some people around us in our daily life who always believe in their luck and whatever they do, they leave its outcomes in the hands of their luck. They totally believe in it and if eventually they get failed at the end, we hear them saying that their luck was not good etc.
These kinds of people are completely full of negativity and they have nothing positive to say. So if we would replace our negativity to positivity, then it stops us from feeling unhappy and blaming luck for our outcomes.